I am a professional, university educated defence force officer, who is happy in his current life as a single. However, I do love meeting ladies for drinks, dinner and intimate encounters.

I am financially secure and have finished raising my two daugthers. I am divorced from their mother but we have a working relationship (she has another partner so is not in my life in that way).

I live alone on base (so have very limited opportunities to have over night guests) and I am very happy in that. However, I love the company of women and would love to have on-going friendships with compatible ladies.

I have been a regular nudist in the past and would like to get back to that life-style. However, this is not a show stopper in terms of my being your friend.

I am looking for sexual freindships that are on-going.

I am looking for ladies who are uni educated and financially independent and secure. I prefer that they have are independent emotionally, and capable of holding an opinion but know when to compromise with me on an issue.

I prefer red heads who are slender to average build. I would prefer european ladies but I am flexible in this respect so don't let that stop you contacting me.

While sexual compatibility is a significant factor for me, emotional maturity and compatibility is also very much a factor. I don't want to be the leader in the relationship (if one develops) nor do I want to be the follower. I want (and need) partners will who I can share life and experiences with.

Making love to my lady on a tropical beach in the warm tropical rain.

Also love the idea of being dominated by my partner (secxually) and being her sex slave (note I am not into pain)

Like the Bond series, science fiction, suspense. But will generally watch most stuff.

Anything except for hip-hop, rap, gangster, etc

Science Fiction and detective style shows

Mainly science fiction and techno spy thrillers. Also historic and biographical non-fiction.

Nothing specific. I like to at least try everything. I can't stand pineapple. (the favour of pineapple is OK, I just can't eat the actual fruit)

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