What drives me to do this.
Welcome to my first (ever) blog.
Why am I on this (and other) sites like it. Well, I have been in solid relationships for over 30 years. As a result, I find myself completely unfamiliar with the dating scene.
Also, I have noticed that people out at the clubs and pubs are very young and that I am invisible to women under the age of 35. Also, I find that alomst every person I meet who would be a likely partner is already involved. (I may be willing to be causal regarding freindships and sex but I am not willing to knowingly become 'the other man').
So, finding myself at a complete loss in terms of meeting prospects, I find myself here trying to figure out if there is anyone willing to give me a go.
I like to think I am a nice guy and that I will always knowingly do the right thing by people. I am hoping that I can find friends here and I am hoping that people are willing to show a little trust in the fact that I am genuine before they write me off as 'just after pussy'. While that is a part of why I joined a site called Fling Finder, what I am looking for goes a little deeper than that.
Here's hoping we all get the chance to prove that there is someone out there for all of us.
HangfireFlip
Brunswick Heads, NSW, AU
G'day HangfireFlip,
Interesting handle... anyway, believe it or not there are plenty of people on here looking for more than just a fling. Just because the name of the site is "flingfinder" that doesnt mean thats the sole purpose for everyone. Jump into the chatrooms (busiest in the evenings)and introduce yourself, just join in the conversation... most members are very welcoming and i'm sure you'll make a lot of friends to chat too... and while chatting to people, you might catch the eye of a potential match ;)
Good luck with your search.