Swingers Parties - 10 Tips to Party Success

You may be a bit nervous about hosting a swingers party for the first time. Relax and get naked. These tips will help make your party a roaring success and ensure a good time will be had by all.

Before you decide to throw your own party, hopefully you’ll have the opportunity to be a guest at several others first. This allows you to see how other people host their swingers parties and you’ll come away with good ideas for what games are fun to play, popular food and drinks and other things that otherwise wouldn’t have crossed your mind.

It’s generally accepted that parties are attended by invitation only. Open invitations aren’t a good idea because it allows people you don’t know at all into your home. Sending invitations gives you more control over how many guests you want to have.

We’ll probably never be a completely smoke free society, but that doesn’t mean you have to allow it in your home if you don’t want to. Many hosts allow smoking but only outside the house, typically around the swimming pool or hot tub.

One of several reasons that swingers prefer private parties to clubs is because the music at most clubs is at a volume that discourages efforts to make conversation. Be sure your music is loud enough to be heard, but not by the neighbours. It’s also a good idea to have several varieties of music; as the party mood transitions and changes, the music can match the mood.

Designate which rooms will be private and which areas are open. Rooms where sex will take place should be well provided with clean towels and extra sheets. A truly thoughtful host will also have extra condoms, should anyone forget theirs.

We all know men will not stop and ask for directions, so be sure they’re clearly printed on the invitation. Make sure you’ve arranged for adequate parking for all your guests so no one feels the need to use your neighbour’s lawn or driveway.

For the duration of the party, put the pets away and send the kids to grandma’s house. There’s just no reason for them to be at a swingers party.

Have more than one game to play, even though you may wind up only playing one. Games make the atmosphere a little more relaxed and a lot more fun and are great for reducing any tension that may be felt by novice swingers at your party. If you can’t think of any great adult party games, see tip number one.

Your party should have a specific time to start as well as an official end time. Some guests will have no reason to hurry home and others may be escaping kids and/or inlaws for the first time in months. Without a stop time, you’ll be watching the sunrise with guests still hittin’ it in the back room.

Most importantly, keep in mind the reason you decided to give a swingers party in the first place. They’re relaxing and entertaining and they give swingers a chance to socialise with like-minded couples. And if they’re done right, they can also be sexy, hot and nasty. Don’t forget to enjoy a piece or two of that yourself. You worked hard to put the party together; you deserve to have some fun.

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