Had a think bout why I am here (takes me a while ya see);) I am a fully functioning heterosexual male and, like many guys (most? all!?), that head gets in the road some times - who am I kidding--a lotta times! But then I am old enough to know sex is only part of it. What I am really keen to find is a 'girl' who 1st and foremost is a 'friend'.

Yep, I'm married. If that is a no no for you, then thanks for stoppin by and good luck out there.

If your mind is open enough to still be reading then I appreciate your acceptance and I shall do my best to make some sense.
"She" is a good person and I'm not planning on changing the situation but we've grown so far a ---- part (separate rooms etc) and pretty well do our own thing a lot of the time. Still alot of respect there.

It would be nice to meet a woman who is a friend 1st, not necessarily a lover. If that happens, it happens. Ideally your a a happy go lucky, confident bird who is comfortable with her wants n needs & who for what ever reason wants a pal for how ever how long. Me, I just Love feminine charm - Adore it. It makes the world spin.

How bout you???
Do you absorb the stillness of an auditorium just before the symphony starts? How bout Midnite Oil cranked up LOUD. Muze would do just as well (just discovered Miles Davis-only took 50 years).
Like to go for a long walk (no matter what the weather)in the bush just to wonder at it and for a moment connect with it all? Stars? Practice another language? Know what existentialism is? Hey, if you do can you help me out with that one? Still tryin to wrap my head around it. Appreciate a lateral style of humor heavily influenced by Python? Read Tolstoy? Serious about waking up the planet to the mess we are making of it? Any of the above????

Me,
I love to learn about anything. An addict for knowledge. Appreciate all the Arts, History, Science, Italian motor bikes you name it. Have a taste for the finer levels of every thing. Not materialistic but pragmatic, meaning I have what I need and a little bit more and that's a nice place to be. If your impressed only by sharp cars and fat wallets - sorry, wrong bloke honey.
I do look good in a suite when necessary but am basically a jeans n jacket kinda guy. Am in pretty good shape for my age (proudly stated with cheesy grin)and carry myself well - but just started smoking again (idiot) so will be quitting (once again)soon. Grrrrr.
Am very easy going on the street, can get a conversation out of a fence post. Oh, 1 good point - I am a really usefull fella from trades work to software - handy piece of info bout a guy

Admire brilliant (not great) leaders. Follow politics (with very little faith). Country boy at heart trapped in the city. Despise close minded, negative bigots etc. No, not despise, just sad for them. Wanna see some more of the world again.

That's a short chaotic description. incomplete and only how I see myself at this moment. Guess you should decide for your self.

I have 'lurked' around these sites before and spotted the pattern. Ladies get 10,000 messages but many are weird - apparently. Many birds are here for the mass attention or their version of Brad Pitt and after reading my blurb will be bored so, if you have gotten this far thanks for that Why not run through the finish line and give me a message.

If not me, I hope you find what you came here for and I wish you well out there.
Ciao.

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Shawshank redemption; Ghandi; Matrix; Apocalypse now; The Party;

all of it

Geekey stuff

Classic stuff. Dune is excellent. Tolstoy.

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