If you only want to spice life up and want to keep it spiced without long-term commitment. I’ll be up front from the get go. I am looking for a discrete, enjoyable and fun relationship. I’m not a player so if I hook up with a friend with benefits then you won’t find me off with other women. I am a chef, or was many years ago, and a good one, so if you like dinner parties, good food and entertaining then we should message/chat and find out more about each other. That’s the overview. I am not looking for family, love and happily married ever after or hang-ups. I’m looking for a person who, once we get to know each other, can handle a discrete relationship. A woman that looks after herself is independent and knows what she wants in life. Now for the thing that will decide if you go further. I am married and would never leave my wife.

Simply there is no sex in our marriage and I respect the reasons why. Some things just happen in our lives and damage us. With love and compassion we get by. I’m a full time writer and painter, so I am passionate and creative. I’m intelligent and love a great sense of humour. I like making love. It is not just sex. So if you are truly looking for a friend with benefits and you like what you read and can be honest with me, then think about getting in contact. I want my FWB to enjoy the thrill and intrigue, have fun with a good, and I mean good, cover story. My wife is no fool. She understands the problem in our long marriage and doesn’t have a problem with me wanting a more passionate relationship. Naturally she doesn’t want to know about it and I’d never hurt her that way. We have a policy, tell the truth or say it’s something I don’t want to talk about. No nagging, suspicions or precious feelings. That’s why we’ve been together so long. I want a FWB to be a part of my life, even if its just as a friend, enjoy and be a part of our social life. Discretion is everything, so I am looking for someone who laughs, is emotionally stable, interested in similar things to me and I guess above all, grow as friends, even FWB do, over time.

I've said most of it in what I'm looking for but here's a little more. I like women that are intelligent, light hearted, spirited and have a good sense of humour. Must be discrete and take good care of them self. No baggage. I’m not after a super model.

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