i believe it's pretty simple to be happy, and make others happy, so long as you both understand that happiness is the desired outcome... no ego, no selfishness, just 'us'.

i love to laugh. i am generally a positive person, who believes there is good in most things in life.
i'm a film geek. i love music: jazz, soul, funk, latin, hip-hop, jazzy house, and anything incorporating elements of these.
love the beach, my garden, my kids.

i don't know what i'm looking for right now.
i know i'm lonely as hell, and would love to be held a little.
i lead a healthy lifestyle and i have only a couple of vices: i need a good coffee, and um... allot of sex.

i am very down to earth, and would rather go shopping than talk football. i am always polite and casual. i am comfortable in any situation, but don't like to be serious too much of the time.

i work extremely flexible hours (never 9-5).
i opt for a life which provides me with quality leisure time to look after myself and my kids while they are growing up while still paying the bills, and keeping my materialistic requirements satisfied.
i own my home and i own just about everything i desire.

i am a designer, i'm writing a couple of scripts (expect to direct them when they're done). i do some acting and i'm a dj... i'm no rock star 'throw your hands in the air' guy, i play in cool bars throwing down cool jazzy beats for a listening crowd.
my 11 years in clubs has lead me to appreciate my time away from them.

i am english/italian...
most people tell me i look younger than i am.
the name is Adam R. Thomas.

thanks for stopping by.
looking forward to a chat.

I'm unsure of what i need right now.
complicated is an important word to me at the moment.
i am turned on by allot of things. there is no one body type, hair color, breast size i prefer. however, i am turned off by just as many things.

-Tomdom