1 st meet up

You make arrangements to meet at a nice cafe or bistro in the middle of the afternoon. You have a few drinks and some stimulating conversation. By the end of the date you know whether you are attracted to one another or not if the answer is yes then ask the lady/man to a motel room with you if not go your separate ways and you've had a nice afternoon. Either way you have not lost anything and you very much might gain a very nice experience. Nothing ventured, nothing gained darl.

Back when i was a bit of a man whore, i used to always hang out and have a few drinks and a gasbag then see what happens from there. No pressure, no expectations, just let nature take its course. You'll get the feel for the situation, and where its heading. Tell her she looks awsome, and see how she reacts to that before you go ahead and say "good enough to eat" ;-)
Of course every situation is different, if you're close to home you can ask her back to your place to chill out infront of a movie... if you've got a motel - same thing. Just go with the flow man, but meeting up in a public place is definately a good place to start, coz then you can go your seperate ways if things dont work out quite like you hoped.