Hi all

Sweetgem makes some good points. It's not so easy as the name might imply. It's hard enough even to get a response to a message a lot of the time. Any response at all.

Hi there, meeting women online is the same as meeting them in the real world, whether to play only, or to date and play. Just because this site is call Fling Finder, it doesn't automatically guarantee sex at a finger click! Even a brothel doesn't guarantee sexual service at demand, so I was told!

People on here, both men and women, have standards and preferences. So, it will depend on how you approach the women of your interest, and have you approached the right target audience.

Your profile is quite empty! Your relationship status is not mentioned upfront, which takes away people's choice for deciding whether or not you're worthwhile to meet, as some women are not interested in hooking up with attached or married men, and that is simply their preference, respect that and don't take it personal.

So, how to meet women that actually want to play?.......well, put in some efforts and write an informed profile such as, what exactly are you seeking? (Please don't roll your eyes and say "sex of course!" because that is not good enough to attract someone's interest)! Tell people whether you're on here seeking something for long term (even a FB or FWB relationship can be ongoing and long term!) or short term? Whether you're after a stable FWB relationship (yes it is a relationship, even though it is not committed)? Or are you only interested in one night stand arrangement?

Please always remember that cyber world is no difference to the real world! Don't even think that people should drop their standards and preferences just because this site has the word "fling" in its name! :)

Good luck and I wish you success :)