Bondage - Discipline - Submission - So here's the question
I don't expect many replies as the information may reveal things that the "writer" doesn't want other to know.
I'm on a few sites now and seeking a submissive woman - I've had a few hits here and there, but many seem to say they like the idea of bondage but are too scared to give it a go.
The way I look at things is, if you like the idea of something - give it a go, especially with someone that knows what they are doing - even all the better.
So tell me; what is you perception of: Bondage - Discipline - Submission as three seperate topics.
I'm just curious to know what different ladies think, it may give me an idea of which angle to take when setting profiles :-)
Thanks for reading.
Master X
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(Private Profile) - 24 Jun, 13
-Totally agree, in fact I would add that it is the element of trust that gives submission so much power.
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(Private Profile) - 23 Jun, 13
-Oh yea lol to me, Bondage is being restricted/disabled and having to trust and rely on the person your with to recognise what's good and pleasurable and when it's pushing all boundaries. Extremely exciting but requires a lot of trust. Discipline to me is wanting to be punished and pushed past your limits about pushing the boundaries and giving the other person permission to push that little but further than you think you can handle. Submission is very psychological and the sub I think gets the most enjoyment from it because they are doing everything and anything asked of them to please or satisfy their Dom. Good fun and also a good test of your own boundaries.
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(Private Profile) - 23 Jun, 13
-I straight away think of the what if? Which as a woman putting herself out there attracting males by posting alluring or even naked pictures and straight out asking for sex you have to do. From my experience 90% of the people on these sites are genuinely just looking for a good time but there is a small few who would use a one night stand situation and being given permission to be "rough" etc. to push the boundaries which in a relationship situation may be acceptable or even welcomed but when your meeting a relative stranger is a whole nother ball park. People as much as they may not want to or even realise they have can go to far and if you don't know somebody well enough she may not feel she is able to stop what's happening and he (or visa versa) may not know the signs she would give that she's in distress everyone reacts differently, I laugh when being physically pushed to a limit of pain which can be really dangerous.
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(Private Profile) - 23 Jun, 13
-Well it depends what someone is looking for. I'm not looking for a master but a little bondage and discipline is not out of the realm of possibility for me. Submission is not my thing for sure and I have had an unpleasant experience with bondage once so fairly particular about who I would go there with again too.
I don't know if that is the kind of response you would find helpful though
East Perth, WA, AU
Thanks for taking the time to make your comments. I agree that the trust factor is paramount as that is something that has always been built up with my subs and the most common concerns of any new subs :-)... again thanks for the response!