Ladies, what kindles the "spark"?
Everyone knows that for guys online dating is basically an exercise in listening to crickets chirp.
By contrast women in online dating get bombarded by generic messages en masse from guys, many of which they won't even bother opening.
So as a guy who is pretty new to any form of online dating, let alone a casual dating site like this, what should I do to kindle that "spark" in potential matches so that things actually go somewhere?
To be clear, I'm a big believer in the product. In person I'm confident, outgoing, funny, fun to be around, pretty easy on the eyes (I'm told), highly educated, sophisticated and respectful and considerate.
Online is a different story. Setting up a profile, especially as I have the discretion to not show my face, is an exercise in uncertainty.
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