Help!!

next time just tell her as you would a mate."you had your chance and made your choice ,now i am trying to get in this girls pants. so be the friend you said you want to be and back off"(or put up)

without wanting to sound like a meanie it sounds like the old "shes just not into you" thing,,,,But i wouldnt worry too much lovely..im sure there are plenty of girls ready to take her place on your "want" list ....

I like the guiding her away thing. I'm going to use that. Cheers

Just ignore her stupid acts. Behave talk to her. Threat her as a friend. One trick I find very useful when I am having this kind of trouble with people I am not interested in is confessing I have a crush on someone. It might hurt for a short moment but it has so far always transferred sexual tension to friendship.

Or encourage her to hit on some bloke you meet when you are out. Guide her away from you to get your own freedom. But go on and have fun.

Yes it is the true definition of a cock block regardless of gender, but from the girls pov how do I give the cold shoulder without seeming like a dickhead that failed at getting the girl and is moving on???

To me it sounds like she's using you to pump her ego...and you're falling for it. Walk away now. If she was a bloke what she does when you are out would be called cock blocking.

I have to agree Nux.. She sounds like she wants you around when she wants you to lean on, but doesn't 'want' you.. walk away, and she 'might' realise what she lost.. but the downside is, she might not come. You would have to be prepared to keep walking and not crawl back.

Currently you are in the 'Friendzone' and you ain't leaving it any time soon, mate.

Having said that, it's my opinion, and you know you best.

yep with you there 50zcool

She sounds like a bitch.
Sorry, i know she's your friend and you want to get into her pants, but someone had to say it.

Thanks for all the good advice, bit confused now, but I'll keep you all posted.

plus she may not be the kind of 'friend' that you need in your life

yep, indeed
game playing is what this is
oh I don't want you, but hey I'll be like this when we go out
enough already
do what 50z said and tell it to her straight, be firm with her
Some women need this
You are not a push over, don't allow her to play you
game set match (over)

I Have and did, never get anything difinitive, except this time she acknowledged it as a problem she needs to sort out. Guess thats a start?

Yes it is destructive. Ask her why?

I have a friend who knows he isn´t the right for me. He knows why I look for other men and he supports me in this. Nevertheless he acts like a "Big brother" looking after baby sister. He even jokes that he wants to approve the candidates. It is a kind of possessiveness. We never go out together...so he is never in between for real. We speak about this regularly.

Speak to her!